Maggie Atkinson Consulting Ltd

Change management in a challenging world


Blog

Life's many lessons and how they might be learned

Posted on November 11, 2018 at 12:15 AM

I've had one of those intensely busy autumns that sometimes come one's way.  It has made me ever more mentally and emotionally agile as I move from setting to setting, tuning into each organisation's wave length, constantly adjusting what I think I'm being asked for so it matches what that client, that day, actually wants or needs.  And in every setting, with every group of people I've been working alongside, I have felt myself being challenged to learn. ...... And learn. ...... And learn again.  I have found myself, at regular turns, looking at who I am, what I think I'm doing there, in either a real or a virtual mirror and sometimes under a very bright spotlight.  I have been asked, across a double handful of assignments or challenges, to look at every aspect of myself as a result of what others have had to teach me in this ever-changing bright and breezy season of the year. I am lucky, in this "portfolio" stage of my life and career, to be working in a wide range of settings - as a consultant, as a Chair of the Board, as a volunteer, as a Non-Executive Director, and as a specialist expert or subject adviser in organisations' sensitive, challenging or difficult processes.  I've also experienced, though many who know me see the me who always hits the spot, being one of  the unsuccessful people in competitions various.  I mean that in the widest possible sense: from how fast everybody else runs at my local fit club leaving me straggling, through not being followed up by people earnestly asking to work with me, to not quite hitting the mark in things I thought I wanted, worked hard for but didn't get  -  only to realise I was only in those races for show, or because, old and wily as I am, I don't always say no when that's the very word I ought to use. What have I learned, or been reminded of when I already knew it but had filed it away somewhere at the back of my mind?  That there are others who are so brilliant, so "sorted," such thought or practice leaders or both, that they will always have something to teach me about how better to see things, how better to problem solve, how braver to be in setting out to solve a problem or a puzzle.  That there are very many more brilliant preople, amazing leaders, great contributors, wonderful innovators and carriers of the flame, than I have ever been or could ever be.  Watching them influence people or change situations is an education in itself, and I am in their company to admire what they do, and to learn how.  That I will be a learner all my life - including how to handle that life when something doesn't go my way so that I am not stopped in my tracks by the experience, but take the learning into my life and my work. That one of my strengths is that I am always learning, even when I am also teaching somebody else how to tackle their challenges and achieve their goals.  That life is actually one long lesson that brings rewards, grows me by facing me with what I don't yet know but need to understand and then apply.  In my business, and in whatever I give to others, there is always something new to learn.  Does that all sound ever so slightly "motherhood and apple pie"?  A bit "Pollyanna"?  Sorry if that's so.  Actually, no, I'm not.     

Categories: None

Post a Comment

Oops!

Oops, you forgot something.

Oops!

The words you entered did not match the given text. Please try again.

14144 Comments

Reply cheap jordans
5:12 PM on January 19, 2021 
Thanks so much for providing individuals with an extraordinarily wonderful chance to read articles and blog posts from this website. It can be very terrific plus jam-packed with amusement for me personally and my office co-workers to visit your site not less than 3 times per week to find out the newest issues you have. And of course, I'm also certainly satisfied considering the excellent thoughts you give. Certain 4 ideas in this post are ultimately the most efficient I have had.
cheap jordans http://www.jordansforcheap.us.com
Reply kobe sneakers
5:11 PM on January 19, 2021 
I would like to get across my affection for your kind-heartedness giving support to persons who require help on this one question. Your special dedication to passing the solution up and down came to be exceptionally insightful and have encouraged somebody like me to achieve their dreams. Your amazing interesting publication indicates a whole lot to me and especially to my office colleagues. Warm regards; from all of us.
kobe sneakers http://www.kobesneakers.com
Reply hermes belt
4:40 PM on January 19, 2021 
I truly wanted to write a message in order to express gratitude to you for these amazing hints you are writing at this website. My time intensive internet investigation has at the end of the day been paid with useful ideas to write about with my companions. I would repeat that we website visitors actually are very fortunate to dwell in a fine place with so many special people with very beneficial tips and hints. I feel pretty grateful to have seen your entire webpages and look forward to many more enjoyable minutes reading here. Thank you again for all the details.
hermes belt http://www.hermesbelts.com
Reply Eyesow
4:20 PM on January 19, 2021 
where to buy generic propecia canadian pharmacy tadalafil 20mg propecia cost singapore where can i buy viagra over the counter in usa drug vardenafil pills levitra 10 mg online ivermectin tablets where to buy plaquenil levitra cost australia generic albuterol cost
Reply Judysow
3:51 PM on January 19, 2021 
cheap viagra for women tadalafil tab 10mg buy viagra online europe amoxil 500 cialis online pharmacy uk purchase prednisone for dogs online without a prescription prednisone buy online uk cheap canadian pharmacy prednisone 5 mg tablets doxycycline 100mg price australia
Reply lebron james shoes
3:23 PM on January 19, 2021 
Thanks a lot for providing individuals with remarkably remarkable chance to check tips from this website. It's usually so lovely and as well , full of a lot of fun for me and my office colleagues to visit the blog at the least thrice a week to see the fresh items you will have. Of course, I'm just actually contented with all the perfect tactics you give. Selected two areas in this posting are surely the most efficient we have had.
lebron james shoes http://www.lebron18shoes.us
Reply jordan shoes
3:07 PM on January 19, 2021 
I want to voice my affection for your kindness in support of persons that must have guidance on this one study. Your personal commitment to passing the message all-around turned out to be particularly useful and have really allowed regular people just like me to realize their targets. Your personal invaluable help entails a whole lot to me and substantially more to my fellow workers. Thanks a ton; from everyone of us.
jordan shoes http://www.shoesjordan.us.com
Reply adidas yeezy
1:18 PM on January 19, 2021 
A lot of thanks for each of your work on this website. My mother take interest in engaging in investigations and it's obvious why. Many of us learn all about the powerful tactic you provide worthwhile items via this blog and in addition cause contribution from people about this content so our own daughter is in fact becoming educated a whole lot. Take pleasure in the rest of the year. You are always performing a dazzling job.
adidas yeezy http://www.yeezyadidas.us
Reply curry shoes
12:16 PM on January 19, 2021 
Thank you a lot for providing individuals with remarkably memorable possiblity to discover important secrets from this site. It is usually so sweet and packed with a lot of fun for me personally and my office fellow workers to visit your web site more than thrice per week to read the latest tips you have. And definitely, I am at all times fulfilled with the incredible strategies served by you. Certain 3 areas on this page are in reality the finest we have all ever had.
curry shoes http://www.curry8.us
Reply air jordan shoes
11:21 AM on January 19, 2021 
I as well as my pals have already been reviewing the best techniques on your site and then all of a sudden developed an awful suspicion I had not thanked the website owner for those secrets. Most of the ladies ended up for that reason joyful to see all of them and have in truth been taking advantage of those things. Thanks for simply being simply considerate and then for pick out such smart topics millions of individuals are really wanting to be aware of. My personal honest apologies for not expressing appreciation to you earlier.
air jordan shoes http://www.michaeljordanshoes.us.com
Reply goyard handbags
11:21 AM on January 19, 2021 
I'm writing to make you be aware of what a remarkable discovery my girl obtained checking your blog. She picked up some things, with the inclusion of how it is like to have a very effective coaching nature to get other people without difficulty fully grasp selected complex matters. You actually exceeded visitors' expectations. Thanks for coming up with such insightful, dependable, edifying and even fun guidance on this topic to Sandra.
goyard handbags http://www.goyardhandbag.us
Reply golden goose
11:21 AM on January 19, 2021 
My spouse and i were very ecstatic Chris managed to deal with his studies from your precious recommendations he received through your web pages. It is now and again perplexing to simply be offering things that the rest may have been selling. So we acknowledge we now have the writer to give thanks to for this. The explanations you've made, the simple site navigation, the relationships you aid to instill - it's got many astounding, and it's really leading our son and the family know that that situation is pleasurable, which is particularly vital. Thanks for everything!
golden goose http://www.golden-goose.us
Reply adidas yeezy
11:21 AM on January 19, 2021 
I must show appreciation to the writer just for rescuing me from this particular instance. Because of searching throughout the the web and coming across tips which are not powerful, I believed my entire life was well over. Being alive without the strategies to the difficulties you have solved as a result of your main short post is a serious case, as well as ones which may have negatively damaged my entire career if I had not discovered your blog. Your own talents and kindness in taking care of all the things was useful. I am not sure what I would have done if I hadn't come across such a stuff like this. I'm able to at this time look forward to my future. Thanks very much for the reliable and results-oriented guide. I won't hesitate to propose the blog to anyone who ought to have direction on this area.
adidas yeezy http://www.yeezyadidas.us
Reply jordan shoes
11:20 AM on January 19, 2021 
I actually wanted to post a message in order to thank you for all of the lovely strategies you are writing at this website. My extended internet lookup has finally been paid with really good know-how to write about with my friends. I 'd say that most of us site visitors are truly fortunate to exist in a very good community with very many marvellous individuals with good concepts. I feel very fortunate to have used your site and look forward to many more fabulous times reading here. Thanks once more for all the details.
jordan shoes http://www.jordan12.us.com
Reply yeezy 350
11:20 AM on January 19, 2021 
I must express my passion for your generosity in support of individuals who require help on the topic. Your special commitment to getting the solution around appeared to be definitely informative and has specifically made some individuals much like me to attain their endeavors. Your entire interesting tutorial entails much to me and even further to my office workers. Warm regards; from each one of us.
yeezy 350 http://www.yeezy350boostv2s.us
Reply kd shoes
11:20 AM on January 19, 2021 
I needed to compose you the little bit of observation to be able to give thanks yet again for all the beautiful opinions you have contributed on this page. This has been so surprisingly open-handed with you to offer unhampered precisely what a number of us might have marketed as an e book to help with making some money for their own end, most notably considering that you could possibly have done it in the event you decided. These pointers in addition worked to provide a good way to know that someone else have similar eagerness just as my personal own to know a good deal more around this problem. I believe there are a lot more pleasant periods in the future for folks who look over your site.
kd shoes http://www.kd-shoes.us
Reply golden goose sale
11:20 AM on January 19, 2021 
I together with my buddies ended up reviewing the best hints found on your web page and then unexpectedly developed a terrible feeling I had not expressed respect to you for those secrets. Those women are already certainly warmed to see them and have now undoubtedly been loving them. Appreciation for really being considerably accommodating and also for making a decision on varieties of amazing things most people are really needing to be aware of. My very own sincere regret for not saying thanks to you sooner.
golden goose sale http://www.goldengoosessale.com
Reply spongebob kyrie 5
11:20 AM on January 19, 2021 
I enjoy you because of your entire work on this blog. My mom enjoys working on investigations and it is easy to see why. A number of us learn all concerning the compelling manner you deliver powerful tips and tricks via your web site and even recommend contribution from the others on the issue so our princess is without question starting to learn a great deal. Enjoy the rest of the new year. You're performing a pretty cool job.
spongebob kyrie 5 http://www.kyrie5spongebob.us
Reply pandora
10:56 AM on January 19, 2021 
I not to mention my guys were studying the excellent thoughts found on the blog while suddenly came up with a terrible suspicion I never expressed respect to the blog owner for those techniques. The ladies appeared to be absolutely joyful to learn all of them and have in truth been tapping into them. Many thanks for really being indeed helpful and for pick out variety of ideal themes millions of individuals are really desperate to understand about. My very own sincere apologies for not expressing appreciation to earlier.
pandora http://www.pandorasjewelry.us
Reply golden goose
10:56 AM on January 19, 2021 
I am also commenting to make you be aware of of the amazing discovery my princess found visiting yuor web blog. She realized several issues, which include what it is like to have an amazing giving mindset to let others very easily master chosen tricky subject areas. You undoubtedly did more than people's expectations. Thank you for producing these helpful, trustworthy, educational and as well as cool tips on that topic to Sandra.
golden goose http://www.goldengoose-outlet.us.com

Ah, to live in interesting times!

I'm sure that, like me, for many contacts and colleagues, working days are running in anything but the usual order, anything but the usual way. For me, business has stopped for the time being, all bar finishing off some vital tasks to conclude a great assignment with a client whose people gave, gave and gave again as I worked to help them problem solve and solution find. I am still adjusting to the fact that, the diary being on hold (not closed!) there is, for the first time in my working life, no rush.  No urgency in getting that domestic business done around my business and the people who seek to use it. I can take my time in the kitchen and the garden, at the piano or in my permitted outside exercise a day.  This is not my style, and it makes me a bit jumpy.  It's a struggle to believe it, let alone let my clock run slower than usual.  For former colleague DCSs and their staff and partners, whilst some of the everyday clutter might have set itself aside, their days are very full, their sleeves rolled up and their heroic efforts focused on ensuring the people they serve are as safe as possible, for as long as possible, with as much dignity and support as can be afforded them. I salute them, as ever.  I do remember what single community crises were like when I did the job.  But then there was simply nothing of the scale, or the likely longevity, of the current massive challenge facing them, and society, right now.   


This period of enforced introspection has got me thinking, mostly in the researcher part of my brain.  What I see on a daily basis is that, beyond the muppets who don't think Covid19 is serious or could affect them and won't modify their conduct beyond getting mad and behaving badly, thousands of people are just doing good. Volunteering, offering simple help like dropping off shopping on a neighbour's doorstep, going a LOT further and putting themselves on the line, offering free online support to parents whose children are not at school so everybody may be feeling the strain.  The observer in me is starting to hatch some ideas that would bear scrutiny when this is all over.  Here are some research questions you might help me think about!


Will the economy recover? Or will we have to grow to being, by necessity, a more socially aware nation that seeks out and supports our strugglers rather than blaming them for their own situations then getting on with our own lives?  What will a national workforce look like when we are through the other side?  Will we stay connected, or are we likelier to go back to being frantic, self-absorbed, as our pre-crisis behaviour tended to make us?  Will the memory of when people pulled together, stayed local, formed bonds via Zoom or Skype or WhatsApp linger?  Will we mark when we realised that "We don't need that meeting" was an actual thing?  When people found both altruism and skills they didn't know they had?  When all this is over, can we harness citizen research as well as that done in academia to explore the phenomena we are witnessing as people turn towards others as well as addressing their own concerns?  Or does it take a serious crisis, another Covid19, to make us step into a shared mental and emotional space and capture what it teaches us rather than staying in our own, meaning we will forget? I'm working on some approaches to research bodies on all this, given this is a truly remarkable, as well as a sad, scary, deeply unsettling and uncertain - an "interesting" - time.


If you would like to co-explore what I ruminated on above, or if like me you are watching fascinated as people stop buying what they don't need and concentrate on what they and others do need? Together?  Please get in touch!  


And in the meantime? Stay safe.  Good luck. And if you are in an organisation that's keeping us all going, thank you.

0