Maggie Atkinson Consulting Ltd

Change management in a challenging world


Blog

Life's many lessons and how they might be learned

Posted on November 11, 2018 at 12:15 AM

I've had one of those intensely busy autumns that sometimes come one's way.  It has made me ever more mentally and emotionally agile as I move from setting to setting, tuning into each organisation's wave length, constantly adjusting what I think I'm being asked for so it matches what that client, that day, actually wants or needs.  And in every setting, with every group of people I've been working alongside, I have felt myself being challenged to learn. ...... And learn. ...... And learn again.  I have found myself, at regular turns, looking at who I am, what I think I'm doing there, in either a real or a virtual mirror and sometimes under a very bright spotlight.  I have been asked, across a double handful of assignments or challenges, to look at every aspect of myself as a result of what others have had to teach me in this ever-changing bright and breezy season of the year. I am lucky, in this "portfolio" stage of my life and career, to be working in a wide range of settings - as a consultant, as a Chair of the Board, as a volunteer, as a Non-Executive Director, and as a specialist expert or subject adviser in organisations' sensitive, challenging or difficult processes.  I've also experienced, though many who know me see the me who always hits the spot, being one of  the unsuccessful people in competitions various.  I mean that in the widest possible sense: from how fast everybody else runs at my local fit club leaving me straggling, through not being followed up by people earnestly asking to work with me, to not quite hitting the mark in things I thought I wanted, worked hard for but didn't get  -  only to realise I was only in those races for show, or because, old and wily as I am, I don't always say no when that's the very word I ought to use. What have I learned, or been reminded of when I already knew it but had filed it away somewhere at the back of my mind?  That there are others who are so brilliant, so "sorted," such thought or practice leaders or both, that they will always have something to teach me about how better to see things, how better to problem solve, how braver to be in setting out to solve a problem or a puzzle.  That there are very many more brilliant preople, amazing leaders, great contributors, wonderful innovators and carriers of the flame, than I have ever been or could ever be.  Watching them influence people or change situations is an education in itself, and I am in their company to admire what they do, and to learn how.  That I will be a learner all my life - including how to handle that life when something doesn't go my way so that I am not stopped in my tracks by the experience, but take the learning into my life and my work. That one of my strengths is that I am always learning, even when I am also teaching somebody else how to tackle their challenges and achieve their goals.  That life is actually one long lesson that brings rewards, grows me by facing me with what I don't yet know but need to understand and then apply.  In my business, and in whatever I give to others, there is always something new to learn.  Does that all sound ever so slightly "motherhood and apple pie"?  A bit "Pollyanna"?  Sorry if that's so.  Actually, no, I'm not.     

Categories: None

Post a Comment

Oops!

Oops, you forgot something.

Oops!

The words you entered did not match the given text. Please try again.

14144 Comments

Reply golden goose
9:40 PM on January 19, 2021 
I simply wanted to send a word so as to say thanks to you for the unique ways you are sharing here. My time intensive internet lookup has at the end of the day been paid with extremely good concept to talk about with my visitors. I 'd suppose that we readers are unquestionably blessed to be in a wonderful place with very many lovely professionals with interesting principles. I feel truly happy to have discovered your webpage and look forward to plenty of more exciting times reading here. Thanks once more for all the details.
golden goose http://www.goldengoose-outlet.us.com
Reply kevin durant shoes
9:40 PM on January 19, 2021 
Thanks a lot for providing individuals with such a remarkable possiblity to read articles and blog posts from here. It is usually very superb and also stuffed with a great time for me and my office peers to search your website nearly thrice in one week to find out the fresh things you will have. Of course, I'm so always fulfilled with your breathtaking opinions you give. Certain two ideas in this article are clearly the most impressive we've had.
kevin durant shoes http://www.kevindurant-shoes.us.com
Reply giannis shoes
9:40 PM on January 19, 2021 
I not to mention my pals happened to be viewing the nice information and facts found on your website while all of a sudden came up with a terrible feeling I had not thanked you for those secrets. All of the women ended up as a consequence excited to read all of them and already have absolutely been using them. Many thanks for simply being very kind and also for utilizing variety of excellent areas millions of individuals are really eager to understand about. Our own sincere regret for not saying thanks to you sooner.
giannis shoes http://www.giannisantetokounmposhoes.us
Reply yeezy supply
9:39 PM on January 19, 2021 
I simply wanted to write a small comment in order to thank you for some of the awesome points you are placing at this site. My time consuming internet search has at the end been rewarded with pleasant tips to talk about with my companions. I would admit that many of us site visitors are rather endowed to live in a notable community with many special people with valuable opinions. I feel very much grateful to have discovered your website page and look forward to many more enjoyable times reading here. Thanks once more for everything.
yeezy supply http://www.adidasyeezysupply.com
Reply canada goose outlet
9:35 PM on January 19, 2021 
I am writing to let you understand what a nice experience my wife's princess gained studying your web page. She picked up some issues, including how it is like to have an incredible coaching mood to get other individuals with ease understand several grueling things. You truly surpassed my expectations. Thanks for providing those necessary, trusted, edifying as well as cool tips on that topic to Lizeth.
canada goose outlet http://www.canadagoosesoutlet.us
Reply lebron 18
9:15 PM on January 19, 2021 
I actually wanted to develop a comment so as to express gratitude to you for all of the lovely solutions you are placing here. My rather long internet search has at the end of the day been recognized with beneficial facts to share with my good friends. I 'd declare that many of us readers actually are truly blessed to dwell in a fantastic website with very many awesome people with beneficial suggestions. I feel extremely fortunate to have discovered the web page and look forward to so many more excellent moments reading here. Thank you once more for a lot of things.
lebron 18 http://www.lebron18shoes.us
Reply nike sb dunk high
9:08 PM on January 19, 2021 
I intended to create you this tiny remark just to give many thanks once again over the pretty strategies you've documented on this website. It's so particularly open-handed with people like you in giving openly what many people would have offered for sale for an electronic book to help make some cash for themselves, specifically now that you might well have tried it in the event you wanted. Those creative ideas in addition served as a good way to be sure that some people have the identical keenness really like my very own to know the truth more and more around this problem. I'm sure there are some more fun instances up front for many who start reading your blog post.
nike sb dunk high http://www.sbdunk.us
Reply supreme clothing
9:08 PM on January 19, 2021 
Thanks a lot for providing individuals with an exceptionally memorable chance to read from this web site. It's usually very pleasing plus jam-packed with a lot of fun for me and my office peers to search your web site the equivalent of three times a week to read through the latest stuff you will have. And definitely, I'm also actually fascinated concerning the excellent principles served by you. Certain 4 facts on this page are certainly the most effective I've had.
supreme clothing http://www.supremes.us.org
Reply yeezy shoes
9:08 PM on January 19, 2021 
Thanks for all of your hard work on this web page. Betty really loves working on research and it's simple to grasp why. Most of us notice all relating to the compelling tactic you provide powerful thoughts through your web blog and therefore encourage contribution from other ones on that matter plus my girl is really becoming educated a whole lot. Take advantage of the remaining portion of the new year. Your performing a good job.
yeezy shoes http://www.yeezyshoessupply.com
Reply bape
9:08 PM on January 19, 2021 
A lot of thanks for all of your effort on this web page. Kate really loves making time for internet research and it is obvious why. My partner and i notice all about the powerful tactic you give valuable secrets via the website and even cause response from others on the area of interest while our girl is really becoming educated a great deal. Enjoy the rest of the year. You're the one doing a stunning job.
bape http://www.bapes.us.org
Reply yeezy boost 350
9:08 PM on January 19, 2021 
I simply wanted to appreciate you once again. I do not know the things that I would have achieved without the actual smart ideas shown by you about such subject matter. Certainly was a alarming crisis in my circumstances, nevertheless taking a look at the very expert way you processed the issue made me to weep for contentment. I'm just grateful for the advice and then wish you are aware of a powerful job you happen to be doing educating others via your site. I know that you have never got to know all of us.
yeezy boost 350 http://www.yeezy-boost.us.com
Reply pandora charms
9:08 PM on January 19, 2021 
I happen to be writing to let you know of the extraordinary discovery our girl experienced reading through your webblog. She came to find a lot of issues, including what it's like to have a very effective teaching character to get many more just understand some advanced topics. You really surpassed our expectations. Many thanks for presenting the priceless, healthy, edifying and as well as fun tips about the topic to Lizeth.
pandora charms http://www.pandora-jewelrys.us.com
Reply supreme hoodie
9:08 PM on January 19, 2021 
Needed to compose you this very little word in order to say thank you once again for your personal striking methods you have provided on this website. It has been certainly strangely open-handed of people like you to convey unreservedly just what most of us would have supplied for an e book to generate some dough for their own end, certainly given that you might have done it in case you decided. The concepts also acted to provide a great way to be certain that most people have the same fervor like my personal own to figure out somewhat more in regard to this condition. I think there are thousands of more pleasurable periods ahead for folks who find out your website.
supreme hoodie http://www.supremeshoodie.com
Reply balenciaga sneakers
9:08 PM on January 19, 2021 
A lot of thanks for your entire work on this website. Debby really likes going through investigation and it's really obvious why. We learn all regarding the powerful method you render useful ideas on this blog and as well as welcome participation from people on the area plus our child is without question being taught a lot of things. Take advantage of the rest of the year. You're the one conducting a terrific job.
balenciaga sneakers http://www.balenciagasus.com
Reply nike off white
9:07 PM on January 19, 2021 
I intended to create you one tiny note to finally say thanks a lot as before for those gorgeous things you have shown on this page. It is quite surprisingly generous of you to allow unhampered just what a number of us could have offered for sale for an e-book to earn some money on their own, specifically since you could have done it if you considered necessary. The advice additionally acted as the good way to fully grasp some people have the same dream like my own to learn a lot more concerning this issue. I'm certain there are numerous more pleasant occasions in the future for those who discover your site.
nike off white http://www.offwhiteshoes.us.com
Reply yeezys
8:41 PM on January 19, 2021 
My husband and i got really fulfilled Louis could carry out his web research from the precious recommendations he gained through the web site. It is now and again perplexing just to be giving away points which often some people might have been trying to sell. And we consider we need the website owner to thank for this. Those explanations you made, the easy web site navigation, the relationships you will give support to instill - it is mostly incredible, and it's making our son in addition to our family understand this issue is interesting, which is certainly very mandatory. Many thanks for everything!
yeezys http://www.yeezyshoes.in.net
Reply jordan shoes
7:45 PM on January 19, 2021 
I am commenting to let you know of the notable discovery my wife's child enjoyed studying your web site. She picked up several pieces, including what it is like to possess a very effective giving nature to get men and women clearly know some advanced subject matter. You really exceeded people's expectations. I appreciate you for rendering those priceless, dependable, edifying and as well as fun tips on your topic to Ethel.
jordan shoes http://www.jordan4.us.com
Reply Kiasow
5:31 PM on January 19, 2021 
buy doxycycline australia
Reply off white nike
5:15 PM on January 19, 2021 
I am glad for commenting to let you know of the superb experience our child experienced visiting your blog. She even learned some details, including how it is like to have a wonderful teaching spirit to have a number of people without problems master a variety of grueling issues. You actually exceeded our own expectations. Thanks for giving those priceless, dependable, informative and unique thoughts on that topic to Kate.
off white nike http://www.nikexoffwhite.com
Reply golden goose sneakers
5:15 PM on January 19, 2021 
I want to express my love for your generosity for women who need help with this important concern. Your special dedication to getting the solution along has been remarkably functional and has always made individuals much like me to reach their pursuits. The helpful facts means much to me and even further to my office workers. Warm regards; from everyone of us.
golden goose sneakers http://www.goldengoosesonline.com

Ah, to live in interesting times!

I'm sure that, like me, for many contacts and colleagues, working days are running in anything but the usual order, anything but the usual way. For me, business has stopped for the time being, all bar finishing off some vital tasks to conclude a great assignment with a client whose people gave, gave and gave again as I worked to help them problem solve and solution find. I am still adjusting to the fact that, the diary being on hold (not closed!) there is, for the first time in my working life, no rush.  No urgency in getting that domestic business done around my business and the people who seek to use it. I can take my time in the kitchen and the garden, at the piano or in my permitted outside exercise a day.  This is not my style, and it makes me a bit jumpy.  It's a struggle to believe it, let alone let my clock run slower than usual.  For former colleague DCSs and their staff and partners, whilst some of the everyday clutter might have set itself aside, their days are very full, their sleeves rolled up and their heroic efforts focused on ensuring the people they serve are as safe as possible, for as long as possible, with as much dignity and support as can be afforded them. I salute them, as ever.  I do remember what single community crises were like when I did the job.  But then there was simply nothing of the scale, or the likely longevity, of the current massive challenge facing them, and society, right now.   


This period of enforced introspection has got me thinking, mostly in the researcher part of my brain.  What I see on a daily basis is that, beyond the muppets who don't think Covid19 is serious or could affect them and won't modify their conduct beyond getting mad and behaving badly, thousands of people are just doing good. Volunteering, offering simple help like dropping off shopping on a neighbour's doorstep, going a LOT further and putting themselves on the line, offering free online support to parents whose children are not at school so everybody may be feeling the strain.  The observer in me is starting to hatch some ideas that would bear scrutiny when this is all over.  Here are some research questions you might help me think about!


Will the economy recover? Or will we have to grow to being, by necessity, a more socially aware nation that seeks out and supports our strugglers rather than blaming them for their own situations then getting on with our own lives?  What will a national workforce look like when we are through the other side?  Will we stay connected, or are we likelier to go back to being frantic, self-absorbed, as our pre-crisis behaviour tended to make us?  Will the memory of when people pulled together, stayed local, formed bonds via Zoom or Skype or WhatsApp linger?  Will we mark when we realised that "We don't need that meeting" was an actual thing?  When people found both altruism and skills they didn't know they had?  When all this is over, can we harness citizen research as well as that done in academia to explore the phenomena we are witnessing as people turn towards others as well as addressing their own concerns?  Or does it take a serious crisis, another Covid19, to make us step into a shared mental and emotional space and capture what it teaches us rather than staying in our own, meaning we will forget? I'm working on some approaches to research bodies on all this, given this is a truly remarkable, as well as a sad, scary, deeply unsettling and uncertain - an "interesting" - time.


If you would like to co-explore what I ruminated on above, or if like me you are watching fascinated as people stop buying what they don't need and concentrate on what they and others do need? Together?  Please get in touch!  


And in the meantime? Stay safe.  Good luck. And if you are in an organisation that's keeping us all going, thank you.

0