Maggie Atkinson Consulting Ltd

Change management in a challenging world


Blog

Life's many lessons and how they might be learned

Posted on November 11, 2018 at 12:15 AM

I've had one of those intensely busy autumns that sometimes come one's way.  It has made me ever more mentally and emotionally agile as I move from setting to setting, tuning into each organisation's wave length, constantly adjusting what I think I'm being asked for so it matches what that client, that day, actually wants or needs.  And in every setting, with every group of people I've been working alongside, I have felt myself being challenged to learn. ...... And learn. ...... And learn again.  I have found myself, at regular turns, looking at who I am, what I think I'm doing there, in either a real or a virtual mirror and sometimes under a very bright spotlight.  I have been asked, across a double handful of assignments or challenges, to look at every aspect of myself as a result of what others have had to teach me in this ever-changing bright and breezy season of the year. I am lucky, in this "portfolio" stage of my life and career, to be working in a wide range of settings - as a consultant, as a Chair of the Board, as a volunteer, as a Non-Executive Director, and as a specialist expert or subject adviser in organisations' sensitive, challenging or difficult processes.  I've also experienced, though many who know me see the me who always hits the spot, being one of  the unsuccessful people in competitions various.  I mean that in the widest possible sense: from how fast everybody else runs at my local fit club leaving me straggling, through not being followed up by people earnestly asking to work with me, to not quite hitting the mark in things I thought I wanted, worked hard for but didn't get  -  only to realise I was only in those races for show, or because, old and wily as I am, I don't always say no when that's the very word I ought to use. What have I learned, or been reminded of when I already knew it but had filed it away somewhere at the back of my mind?  That there are others who are so brilliant, so "sorted," such thought or practice leaders or both, that they will always have something to teach me about how better to see things, how better to problem solve, how braver to be in setting out to solve a problem or a puzzle.  That there are very many more brilliant preople, amazing leaders, great contributors, wonderful innovators and carriers of the flame, than I have ever been or could ever be.  Watching them influence people or change situations is an education in itself, and I am in their company to admire what they do, and to learn how.  That I will be a learner all my life - including how to handle that life when something doesn't go my way so that I am not stopped in my tracks by the experience, but take the learning into my life and my work. That one of my strengths is that I am always learning, even when I am also teaching somebody else how to tackle their challenges and achieve their goals.  That life is actually one long lesson that brings rewards, grows me by facing me with what I don't yet know but need to understand and then apply.  In my business, and in whatever I give to others, there is always something new to learn.  Does that all sound ever so slightly "motherhood and apple pie"?  A bit "Pollyanna"?  Sorry if that's so.  Actually, no, I'm not.     

Categories: None

Post a Comment

Oops!

Oops, you forgot something.

Oops!

The words you entered did not match the given text. Please try again.

14129 Comments

Reply jordan shoes
4:13 PM on June 21, 2021 
I wish to show thanks to the writer just for rescuing me from such a incident. Just after surfing throughout the the web and meeting advice that were not productive, I was thinking my entire life was gone. Being alive minus the strategies to the issues you've fixed by means of your good review is a critical case, as well as the kind that might have badly affected my career if I hadn't encountered your blog post. Your good ability and kindness in playing with almost everything was invaluable. I'm not sure what I would've done if I had not encountered such a point like this. I am able to at this time look ahead to my future. Thanks so much for the impressive and effective guide. I will not hesitate to suggest your web blog to any person who would like guide on this problem.
jordan shoes http://www.shoesjordan.us.com
Reply cheap jordans
4:12 PM on June 21, 2021 
I and my friends came digesting the best procedures on your web site while instantly came up with an awful suspicion I had not expressed respect to the site owner for those tips. My guys became as a result thrilled to study all of them and have truly been enjoying those things. Thanks for actually being quite helpful and also for obtaining variety of terrific subjects millions of individuals are really eager to be aware of. My very own honest regret for not saying thanks to you sooner.
cheap jordans http://www.jordansforcheap.us.com
Reply bape
3:52 PM on June 21, 2021 
I am glad for commenting to let you know of the fantastic experience our daughter enjoyed going through your web site. She noticed a wide variety of pieces, with the inclusion of how it is like to possess a very effective helping nature to make certain people with ease fully understand selected grueling subject matter. You really surpassed my expected results. I appreciate you for supplying the important, trustworthy, revealing not to mention unique tips about the topic to Gloria.
bape http://www.bapehoodie.us
Reply kyrie 6
3:05 PM on June 21, 2021 
I simply desired to say thanks once more. I'm not certain the things that I would have tried in the absence of the actual tricks contributed by you on such concern. It seemed to be a real fearsome scenario in my opinion, however , coming across the very well-written manner you managed the issue forced me to leap over happiness. Now i am happy for your information and in addition expect you recognize what a powerful job you have been putting in training other individuals with the aid of a site. I am sure you haven't met all of us.
kyrie 6 http://www.kyrie-6.com
Reply chrome hearts outlet
2:30 PM on June 21, 2021 
I would like to show appreciation to the writer for bailing me out of such a instance. After exploring through the world-wide-web and seeing concepts that were not powerful, I assumed my entire life was gone. Being alive without the presence of answers to the difficulties you have solved by way of your main write-up is a critical case, as well as the kind that might have in a wrong way affected my entire career if I had not come across the website. Your own personal training and kindness in taking care of all the details was vital. I am not sure what I would've done if I had not discovered such a subject like this. I'm able to at this time look ahead to my future. Thank you so much for the expert and results-oriented guide. I will not hesitate to refer your blog to any individual who needs guidance about this topic.
chrome hearts outlet http://www.chromehearts.com.co
Reply kd shoes
2:08 PM on June 21, 2021 
I have to convey my admiration for your generosity for folks that require help on in this niche. Your very own commitment to passing the message across turned out to be surprisingly valuable and has always empowered most people just like me to attain their desired goals. Your new insightful key points implies much a person like me and somewhat more to my office colleagues. Best wishes; from all of us.
kd shoes http://www.kd-shoes.us
Reply hermes belt
1:46 PM on June 21, 2021 
I not to mention my friends have already been analyzing the good pointers from your web site and so the sudden developed a horrible suspicion I never thanked the web site owner for those tips. The young men ended up for this reason warmed to study all of them and have now extremely been having fun with those things. Appreciation for actually being really accommodating and then for choosing these kinds of excellent ideas millions of individuals are really desperate to know about. My very own sincere apologies for not saying thanks to you sooner.
hermes belt http://www.hermesbelts.com
Reply kobe shoes
1:26 PM on June 21, 2021 
I'm also commenting to make you understand of the extraordinary experience my friend's girl enjoyed studying your blog. She came to understand too many issues, most notably what it is like to have an ideal coaching spirit to make other individuals clearly learn a number of complicated subject matter. You truly did more than her expected results. I appreciate you for imparting these useful, safe, informative and even cool thoughts on this topic to Sandra.
kobe shoes http://www.kobe-shoes.us.com
Reply moncler jackets
12:21 PM on June 21, 2021 
Thank you a lot for giving everyone an extremely memorable chance to read critical reviews from this web site. It's usually so fantastic plus full of a great time for me and my office acquaintances to visit your site a minimum of 3 times in one week to see the newest tips you have got. Not to mention, we're usually fascinated with all the spectacular thoughts you give. Selected 3 points on this page are basically the simplest we've ever had.
moncler jackets http://www.monclerjackets.us.org
Reply supreme clothing
12:03 PM on June 21, 2021 
I in addition to my friends came checking out the excellent thoughts found on your site and then at once I got an awful suspicion I never expressed respect to the site owner for those strategies. Most of the guys had been certainly excited to read all of them and have in actuality been using those things. We appreciate you simply being considerably considerate and then for going for this form of wonderful things millions of individuals are really desirous to know about. Our own sincere apologies for not saying thanks to earlier.
supreme clothing http://www.supremes-clothing.com
Reply jordan retro
11:35 AM on June 21, 2021 
Thank you for all of your efforts on this website. Kate loves carrying out investigation and it is easy to understand why. Almost all learn all relating to the compelling method you make simple thoughts via your blog and therefore improve response from other individuals on the issue so my child is truly being taught a great deal. Enjoy the remaining portion of the year. You are conducting a brilliant job.
jordan retro http://www.jordan-retro.us.com
Reply golden goose sneakers
11:31 AM on June 21, 2021 
I want to express some thanks to you for bailing me out of this particular issue. After searching through the internet and getting principles which were not beneficial, I was thinking my entire life was over. Living devoid of the answers to the issues you've solved by way of the post is a serious case, as well as those that could have badly damaged my career if I had not discovered your web site. Your main knowledge and kindness in taking care of the whole thing was helpful. I am not sure what I would've done if I had not discovered such a point like this. I'm able to at this time look ahead to my future. Thanks very much for the reliable and sensible help. I won't hesitate to endorse the website to anyone who would like direction about this topic.
golden goose sneakers http://www.goldengooses.us
Reply golden goose
11:22 AM on June 21, 2021 
Needed to post you the bit of word to help thank you so much over again for your awesome guidelines you've featured on this page. It's certainly wonderfully generous of people like you in giving unreservedly what many people might have supplied as an e-book to end up making some money for themselves, particularly now that you could have tried it in case you wanted. Those suggestions additionally served to be the fantastic way to be certain that someone else have similar desire the same as mine to find out a little more with respect to this matter. I am sure there are many more enjoyable occasions ahead for individuals that look over your blog.
golden goose http://www.golden-gooses.com
Reply supreme t shirt
10:22 AM on June 21, 2021 
My spouse and i got really excited when Albert managed to complete his analysis by way of the precious recommendations he gained from your own web page. It's not at all simplistic just to choose to be giving freely helpful tips that many the rest could have been trying to sell. And we also keep in mind we've got the blog owner to be grateful to because of that. The main illustrations you've made, the easy web site navigation, the relationships you can help to instill - it is many sensational, and it's really letting our son and our family recognize that the content is exciting, which is seriously mandatory. Thanks for all!
supreme t shirt http://www.supremeshirt.us.com
Reply kevin durant shoes
9:30 AM on June 21, 2021 
I want to express my appreciation to this writer just for rescuing me from such a situation. After surfing around through the online world and meeting techniques which are not pleasant, I figured my life was over. Being alive without the approaches to the problems you have sorted out through your good posting is a critical case, and those which could have in a wrong way damaged my entire career if I hadn't discovered the website. That knowledge and kindness in dealing with a lot of things was helpful. I don't know what I would've done if I hadn't come upon such a step like this. I'm able to at this point look ahead to my future. Thank you so much for the specialized and result oriented help. I won't be reluctant to propose your web sites to any individual who desires care on this problem.
kevin durant shoes http://www.kd12.us.com
Reply golden goose outlet
9:17 AM on June 21, 2021 
My husband and i felt absolutely satisfied Jordan could conclude his web research with the precious recommendations he discovered using your blog. It is now and again perplexing to just continually be giving for free tricks which often others could have been making money from. So we know we've got the writer to be grateful to for that. The main explanations you have made, the simple blog menu, the relationships you can make it possible to instill - it's mostly astonishing, and it is leading our son in addition to the family reckon that the article is pleasurable, and that's extremely important. Many thanks for the whole thing!
golden goose outlet http://www.goldengooseoutletstore.com
Reply jordan 13
9:03 AM on June 21, 2021 
I intended to write you a bit of remark so as to give thanks as before on the fantastic guidelines you have provided in this article. It was incredibly open-handed with you giving freely all numerous people would have sold as an e book to make some cash for their own end, and in particular given that you might have tried it in the event you wanted. The solutions also worked as the good way to realize that the rest have the identical dream much like my very own to know a great deal more regarding this condition. I'm sure there are a lot more pleasant opportunities in the future for folks who read carefully your blog post.
jordan 13 http://www.jordan13.us.com
Reply kobe byrant shoes
8:50 AM on June 21, 2021 
A lot of thanks for your whole labor on this web page. My daughter loves going through research and it's easy to understand why. A number of us hear all about the lively form you give good information via your website and in addition welcome response from the others about this concept then our princess is without a doubt discovering a lot of things. Enjoy the rest of the new year. You're doing a terrific job.
kobe byrant shoes http://www.kobe-shoes.us.com
Reply supreme t shirt
7:49 AM on June 21, 2021 
I have to express appreciation to this writer just for bailing me out of such a problem. Just after looking out throughout the online world and seeing ways that were not powerful, I was thinking my entire life was done. Living devoid of the approaches to the problems you've fixed as a result of your good article content is a serious case, as well as ones that could have in a wrong way damaged my career if I had not encountered your site. The capability and kindness in dealing with every item was precious. I am not sure what I would have done if I hadn't discovered such a point like this. I am able to at this moment look ahead to my future. Thanks a lot very much for this skilled and result oriented guide. I won't think twice to endorse your blog post to any individual who ought to have direction on this situation.
supreme t shirt http://www.supreme.us.org
Reply Get A Loan
7:44 AM on June 21, 2021 
loan money

Ah, to live in interesting times!

I'm sure that, like me, for many contacts and colleagues, working days are running in anything but the usual order, anything but the usual way. For me, business has stopped for the time being, all bar finishing off some vital tasks to conclude a great assignment with a client whose people gave, gave and gave again as I worked to help them problem solve and solution find. I am still adjusting to the fact that, the diary being on hold (not closed!) there is, for the first time in my working life, no rush.  No urgency in getting that domestic business done around my business and the people who seek to use it. I can take my time in the kitchen and the garden, at the piano or in my permitted outside exercise a day.  This is not my style, and it makes me a bit jumpy.  It's a struggle to believe it, let alone let my clock run slower than usual.  For former colleague DCSs and their staff and partners, whilst some of the everyday clutter might have set itself aside, their days are very full, their sleeves rolled up and their heroic efforts focused on ensuring the people they serve are as safe as possible, for as long as possible, with as much dignity and support as can be afforded them. I salute them, as ever.  I do remember what single community crises were like when I did the job.  But then there was simply nothing of the scale, or the likely longevity, of the current massive challenge facing them, and society, right now.   


This period of enforced introspection has got me thinking, mostly in the researcher part of my brain.  What I see on a daily basis is that, beyond the muppets who don't think Covid19 is serious or could affect them and won't modify their conduct beyond getting mad and behaving badly, thousands of people are just doing good. Volunteering, offering simple help like dropping off shopping on a neighbour's doorstep, going a LOT further and putting themselves on the line, offering free online support to parents whose children are not at school so everybody may be feeling the strain.  The observer in me is starting to hatch some ideas that would bear scrutiny when this is all over.  Here are some research questions you might help me think about!


Will the economy recover? Or will we have to grow to being, by necessity, a more socially aware nation that seeks out and supports our strugglers rather than blaming them for their own situations then getting on with our own lives?  What will a national workforce look like when we are through the other side?  Will we stay connected, or are we likelier to go back to being frantic, self-absorbed, as our pre-crisis behaviour tended to make us?  Will the memory of when people pulled together, stayed local, formed bonds via Zoom or Skype or WhatsApp linger?  Will we mark when we realised that "We don't need that meeting" was an actual thing?  When people found both altruism and skills they didn't know they had?  When all this is over, can we harness citizen research as well as that done in academia to explore the phenomena we are witnessing as people turn towards others as well as addressing their own concerns?  Or does it take a serious crisis, another Covid19, to make us step into a shared mental and emotional space and capture what it teaches us rather than staying in our own, meaning we will forget? I'm working on some approaches to research bodies on all this, given this is a truly remarkable, as well as a sad, scary, deeply unsettling and uncertain - an "interesting" - time.


If you would like to co-explore what I ruminated on above, or if like me you are watching fascinated as people stop buying what they don't need and concentrate on what they and others do need? Together?  Please get in touch!  


And in the meantime? Stay safe.  Good luck. And if you are in an organisation that's keeping us all going, thank you.

0